We had a very busy and fun week! Lily started "Stay and Play" at school which means on Tuesday and Thursday she brings a lunch and stays until 2pm (instead of 11:15)!! She has been asking all year to be put in stay and play, but I liked having her home with us. I know she'll be gone all day in Kindergarten and I was trying to keep her with me as much as possible. But lately, it was becoming obvious that maybe that was not fair to her. She is often bored at home and while I would LOVE to just play with her 24/7, I do have other responsibilities. It has always been that way and I have always tried to encourage her to play independently for at least an hour a day, Btu I think she notices it more now that Danielle is here. So, I agreed to let her play longer at school. She is SO excited. Matthew and Carys are in stay and play with her and she has been having a blast. I have to admit, I liked the extra time too to get work done and get Danielle down for a couple of naps. It may work out best for everyone -- and when she does come home I'll have more time to devote to her.
On Thursday after stay and play we met up with Carys, Matthew and Logan at the park and then went out for ice cream! The weather has been beautiful - in the 70s - and looks to continue that way on and off, so hopefully we can have more days like this. Lily told me for the next two days that I was "the best mommy ever!" She really misses the old schedule with playgroups and extracurricular activities. But with school everyday and babies nap schedule (not just ours, her bffs have babies too), it's not as easy to find the time to play. Hopefully we can change that. On Saturday we had a girl's lunch outing with Carys and Rhiannon at the Cheesecake Factory. It was fun and Danielle ate mushed bananas off the baby plate! She is growing up too fast!! After lunch we all went to Emily's house to play. It was an impromptu play-date, but it was perfect. Unfortunately, I didn't take any pictures either day of Lily, but I did get this one of Danielle all bundled up. It was 60-some degrees outside, but it was windy. The kids were playing outside in the bounce house at Emily's and Danielle seemed cold. So Patti got her a hat and Rhiannon got her Abby's jacket out of the car, and we bundled her up. It worked great since she took a nap outside in her carseat while the kids played. . . . and she looked SO cute all warm and cozy!
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I think that Lily is really appreciating the extra play time. She has been SO good lately. She has been polite and kind to me (not that she wasn't before, just not all the time). She is cleaning up without being asked and trying to help out around the house. On Friday I wasn't feeling very well and she was trying so hard to take care of me. She asked, "Do little girls have milk in their boobs?" When I told her no, why? She said "because I wanted to feed Dani and put her to bed to help you out." It was so sweet, it melted my heart. Lily has always been a VERY caring and sweet girl, but she is also VERY stubborn and has to have her way, so we often bump heads. But she has been perfect lately and we are all enjoying the peace and harmony -- I hope it keeps up!!
At Danielle's doctor's appointment on Tuesday he said I could start giving her water in a sippy if I wanted to, but there was no rush. I really don't care if she takes it right away, but I was trying to keep her entertained at the table while we ate dinner, so I gave her some water. I don't think she got any of it, but it was a good way to get familiar with the sippy.